Book Review – The Midnight Library

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I just realized I never posted this book review, so I’ll back-date it. Tim and I were on our way to watch the Wheel of Fortune taping, so I was unable to make it to the book club meeting in January. There should be a post about that bucket list item somewhere in my blog list 🤩.

This picture was taken on chemo day. I often take books to read and an engaging discussion with my nurse ensues. Often they write down the titles, or give me suggestions from their book clubs.

We read The Midnight Library by Matt Haig, an intriguing book about the concept of “parallel universes.” I recall a Seinfeld episode about this concept! The book explores many of the potential branches in the life of Nora. She is transported into that life, to live as though she had made a different decision. It provides great insight into how one’s life of regrets, decisions, and relationships, may not have turned out any better than the actual life he or she has lived.

I sent my review via the following email, as we flew out the day of the meeting.

“We are standing in line waiting for our plane to board. I hope y’all are having a good meeting! I wish I could be there for this discussion. I’m curious what others think. 

I still have 50 pages left, and I’ll probably finish it on the plane [I did]. Nora just entered her “perfect life” with Ash and daughter Molly. It is a rather captivating book, so it wasn’t for lack of desire; I’ve just been busy this month.

Interesting concept of parallel universes. Certainly makes you think about those Deja vu moments in life. Also made me think about some past regrets. Choices I might have liked to change, but after seeing Nora’s life experiences with overcoming those regrets and the ensuing consequences, it makes me glad to have this life and just live with my choices. Her alternate lives did have some valuable lessons. Maybe we can learn from that as well. I’d rather remember a life that isn’t perfect than to have no memory of it at all.

Lastly, I loved the Thoreau references. Makes me want to read some more of his work. 

Anyway, just a few thoughts before I get on the plane. I would rate it an 8.0.

I did finish the book, and I liked the way it ended.

Here’s what the group said.

Good Afternoon Ladies!!!!  Eight of us gathered to discuss The Midnight Library by Matt Haig.  Our discussion varied immensely about “regrets” and different outcomes that your life can take or could have taken.  Some of us had a hard time getting into the book with the countdown of Nora’s death in the first nine chapters.  But once Nora goes to her different realities or “lives” the book gets very interesting.  We described the book as self discovery and discussed the good and bad of her different realities.  Each of us thought about how important it is to live and let go.  We loved the reality of her with a family but Nora realized that she didn’t earn that life and decided she wanted to live and earn her own life.  
We rated the book an 8.3.


I’d love to hear your thoughts about a parallel universe, or if you have read this books what are your thoughts? Please comment below. It will prompt you to input your email address, but I promise I will never sell it. This is just to ensure you are a real person and not a robot.


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