Book Review – The Walk

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We read this entire book in one day, as we were traveling with the Airstream from New Carlisle OH to Franklin TN. Well, I read and Tim listened. It kept us company along the path and we finished right when we pulled into a hotel (after deciding not to stay at the campground we had booked). We liked The Walk so much we bought the whole series, for other trips. We actually read the second one on another long day. Two down, three to go. This review is on the first book in the series.

The Walk, by Richard Paul Evan, while it was a simple and easy read, captivated our imagination. It begged us to keep turning pages as we read. In some pages it could be a little cheesy, but at the same time it was heartwarming. We liked the main character, Alan, who has decided to fill his brand new backpack and walk from Seattle Washington to Key West Florida (because it was the furthest designation) after losing everything of value to him. He is an ad guy, and he was gifted the highest quality camping gear for doing their campaign. We were a little jealous of his gear. For some, the “coincidences” might seem unbelievable, but to a believer they could be acts of the Holy Spirit. We love adventure, and since we have been to the area where he was walking in this book, it was easy to “see” the cities he passed through.

It was a little awkward and disjointed how the author decided to write the story. At the beginning of each (short) chapter, there is a quote from Alan’s diary. Then he proceeds to tell the story; however, it is unclear at first whether the author is telling the story or if it is the character Alan’s travel journal. It is written in first person point of view, and it is Alan’s story, and we eventually got used to his writing style.

He only makes it to Spokane Washington in this book, and we felt like the author could have written the whole story into one book, rather than dividing it into a series of five. We were curious to read about the rest of the journey, so we did purchase the whole series. It’s the first time we have had anything shipped to our campsite, so this was kind of a trial run, but we had a lot of road left to travel so we took the risk. It worked out just fine. We were staying in a KOA in Little Rock for a few days. Even though we thought it could have been a single novel, The Walk is an easy read and in some ways it’s gratifying to know you can read the whole novel in a day.

We rated it 8.5 out of 10.


Not everyone in my book club liked it. I think the Scriptures contained within might have put some people off (the author is Mormon), or they didn’t think the story was believable, so a few people rated it lower. Overall our group liked the book, however; and we had some deeper discussions than our typical book club. For example, he meets a man with no arms who is looking for a book with all the answers. We had a lot of deep thoughts about whether we would like to have “all the answers.” Great discussion. For that reason I felt like it was a book worth reading. Here’s what my book club had to say about it, courtesy of our leader.

“Ten of us gathered at Canopy to discuss our November book The Walk by Richard Paul Evans.  It was definitely an easy read but there were a lot of differing opinions of the book.  Some people didn’t believe Alan’s story to be real.  Some of us thought the journal entry in each chapter was written by Alan but the chapter was written by the author which was confusing at first.  Several felt a connection to Alan in his journaling and his journey with grief and loss.   We all agreed that we would like an answer book and answers to why things happen to us.  As a group of survivors and caregivers, we agreed that going through our journey changes your perception and how you treat people.  Our overall rating is 7.0.”

Our December 13th book is The Secret History by Donna Tart.  I have already finished this one as I started it after we finished The Walk. I’ll give you my review after our December meeting.


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Book Review – The Vanishing Half

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This has been an epic autumn. The color is amazing in the northern part of America (including Canada). We are still traveling, and have been on the road since the last day of August (see my last blog for more on the trip). We crossed the Ohio border earlier today.

Our journey did shift a little, when we discovered we needed to take our Airstream to the Mothership to have service validate our floor stains are a warranty issue. If you aren’t following me on FaceBook, you may have missed the Spaghetti Sauce Surprise incident. Basically, our pantry had a faulty latch, which came loose. A jar of spaghetti sauce, as well as a number of canned goods, came out of the pantry. The lid popped off the jar (fortunately it didn’t break), and the cans had fun rolling back and forth throughout the rig, carrying the sauce with them. It was quite an unfortunate surprise when we opened the door at our next stop.

We tried many ways to clean it, and while it is lighter, there are permanent stains that have not come up in spite of all our multiple attempts. Our next course of action was to talk with the service manager in Jackson Center, who identified it as a warranty issue. So, we reached out to the Warranty department at Airstream, since our rig is only a few months old. That’s where we are heading today.


Now for that Book Review. My book club read The Vanishing Half by Britt Bennett for our October meeting. I’m trying to keep up with the books even though I’m not going to be there, and I also send in a review each month. I will be there for the November meeting, and I look forward to it. I miss the in-person dialogue.

This is the first book I didn’t finish, in over a year. It started out promising, and I enjoyed reading the first 90-100 pages or so. The story was interesting, with the town of Mallard outside of New Orleans being something I have heard about but didn’t know much information about it. Basically, the black folks there try to “pass” as white, and they are light-skinned and easily passable. That part was intriguing. However, the author started introducing trans and drag queen characters in the second act. And it seemed to me like the author wanted her readers to believe that these relationships are not only normal, but easier to manage than one might experience in real life. She seemed to be comparing the passing from black to white with the passing to another sexual identity, but it is not a good comparison in my opinion.

I didn’t read the whole book, so I can’t fully talk about it intelligently, but I don’t recommend it. ( I did read a full summary of the book on spark notes, and it seems like the book didn’t get any better from there.) If I were rating the book based on the first 100 pages, I would give it a 2 or 3.

I took it with me every time we stopped at a cafe, park, or drove down the road during the month. I couldn’t get past the first 100 pages.

It seems like others in the group didn’t like this book either. Here’s the group review from our wonderful leader.

Seven of us gathered this afternoon to discuss The Vanishing Half by Britt Bennett.  We all agreed that the book is all about identity and contrasts. That the book touched on a lot of topics and was a great read for discussion.  All of us had a hard time with the back and forth timelines but we all continued to read on because we wanted to know what happened to Stella.  We found the contrasts always were black and white, Desiree and Stella; Jude and Kennedy; white people vs black people; Desiree who was poor and Stella who was well off.  In our discussion, R. and K. described how skin color does vary in the African Americans and how being “Brighter” is something that is desired in dating, marrying and their offspring.  We also talked about how each of us has hidden an aspect of our identity.  

We rated the book 7.3.


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Book Review – Project Hail Mary

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Today I’m reviewing the book Project Hail Mary by Andy Weir. We read it in my book club. It’s the first sci-fi book we have read since I joined the club, so it was a nice change of pace (although some of our club members didn’t like it for that reason). Spoiler Alerts!

Reading my book during lunch, while Tim is interviewing a candidate for one his church clients.

I enjoyed this book. It was easy to get into, and it captured my attention from the beginning. The plot was so creative, with the idea of alien life as small as an amoeba, as well as all the challenges experienced along the journey. 

I loved Rocky. If a book has an alien, it’s nice to have one that isn’t the traditional green men. He had a sense of humor which made me laugh out loud several times. Comic relief was well done. I can’t imagine how an entire species can be so technologically advanced without any eyesight. I thought that was a bit of a stretch. I was trying to imagine what he might look like, so I look forward to seeing the movie that’s supposed to come out next year, and see how they imagine him. The difference in their atmosphere versus Earth was very interesting as well. 

I enjoyed the interjection of the backstory as Grace’s memory was coming back. How he went from a coward to one courageous dude. 

Several times in the book I predicted what was coming next. The what if’s… what if Taumoeba get into the fuel holder? And it happened. What if it happens to Rocky? Which of course it did. I did not predict, however, that Ryland would choose to stay on Erid in the end. It makes sense, though, as his one true friend lives there. I wanted to know what happened to earth, all those years later, so not knowing was a bit of a disappointment. Coming back after all that time had lapsed could have been interesting, but I understood why the author chose the ending he did.

I was glad they saved both planets. Whew, we can live another day. 

Also, what about Stratt? She was a very interesting character. I can’t imagine the world giving one person on Earth so much power. And the others who found a way to use the alien Astrophage to fuel the ship. Again, brilliant creativity. Our world unified to conquer a common threat…that’s a nice idea. Unity is certainly a nice idea. I wish our planet was more unified than it is.

I would have liked an answer to the question, How did Grace’s crew die?” We know how Rocky’s crew died, which is interesting in itself. Why not his? After all, he is the main character.

The drawing of the Hail Mary and his extensive description makes you feel like it could actually exist; however, the science talk was a bit much for me. I was impressed with the author’s knowledge about it all, though. I would probably read it again.

I rated it an 8.5. 


Here’s what my book club had to say about it.

“Seven of us gathered to discuss Project Hail Mary by Andrew Weir this afternoon.  Several of us who do not like Sci-Fi were shocked at how much they liked the book.  Several did not care for all the science detail and skipped it or got bored with it.  But we all loved the friendship of Ryland and Rocky.  We all described what we thought Rocky, Ryland and also Stratt looked like while reading the book.  Pat shared with us how Rocky sounded on the audio book.  We had several good laughs regarding the 2 scientists and how they freely explained they were having sexual intercourse and how often.  Stratt bossing everyone around and getting everything she wants.  How Ryland is drugged to go on the mission.  How Rocky ate?  YUK!!!  And wondered how they will and if they’ll show it in the movie.  Rocky having Ryland watch him sleep.  Our discussion was a lot of fun with this book.  We appreciated how Ryland was so humble and yet brilliant.  We all agreed that it was a good ending and he would never go back to Earth.  Besides us seven, 2 other remotely rated the book and it was rated 8.9.”


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The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek – Book Review

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The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek was an intriguing book about the blue people of Kentucky. I did a little research on this, as it seems so far-fetched. My family is from the hills of Kentucky, but I had not heard of it. History majors in my book club had never heard of these people, but indeed they do exist.

Apparently, it’s a very rare genetic condition which causes a white person’s skin to appear blue. Both parents must have the recessive gene. It started when a man from Paris France, who had the recessive gene, moved to rural Kentucky. As fate would have it, he fell in love with a woman who also had the recessive gene. Half of their children were blue, and the other half were white.

The blue-skinned people suffered much racism, and were treated as “colored” folks. It was hard for them to marry, as no one wanted to have children with blue skin. They didn’t have a good understanding of the cause until years later. The book focuses on a blue-skinned woman named “Cussy.” She lives in Troublesome Creek Kentucky. She is a strong female protagonist, and when her mother dies and her father becomes ill, she decides to become a mobile librarian to provide for herself. It came with many challenges, which I won’t give away, but she is an overcomer.

This is based on the true “book women” who would ride on horses or mules to carry books to the mountains where people could not reach a library. The book contains pictures from a historic society of the original book women, which were interesting to see as well. Quite an intriguing history lies behind the novel.

I enjoyed reading The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek, and I learned some things about Kentucky culture that I didn’t already know. I admit it was a challenge to get into it the book at first. I didn’t finish it until after the book club met. I didn’t think I was going to make it to this group due to our Airstream vacation, but we came back early so I was able to go after all. That’s one thing I love about our book club. Even if you haven’t finished the book, you can still talk about it.

One of the other book club members agreed she had the same difficulty getting into the book. Their southern language was written into the dialogue, and it was sometimes hard to understand what the characters were trying to say. However, I enjoyed reading the story and found the character of Cussy to be an inspiration to other underdogs. I also appreciated the extents these book women traveled, as they delivered the books to the mountain people. They didn’t just deliver books. They read letters to the illiterate, taught people how to read, became life-long friends, and served their patrons in ways that were far beyond their expected role. I gave it an 8.5.


Our leader always sums up our discussion. Here’s what she sent us this month. Eight of us gathered on this hot afternoon to discuss The Book Women of Troublesome Creek by Kim Michelle Richardson.  All of us liked the book and most of us knew nothing of the Blue people of the Appalachian or Kentucky.  We all loved Cussy especially since she was such a strong woman and how miserable her life was in Troublesome Creek.  The prejudices, racial tensions even with her peers at the Kentucky Pack Horse Program.  We all thought that the program was so important and courageous and even to this day we discussed how important libraries and reading is to each of us.  We thought about our memories of Mobile Libraries, the smell and exhilaration of escaping in books, Reader’s Digest; Highlight magazines, etc.  Some of us had a hard time getting into it but then thought it was very well written. We rated the book an 8.7.


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Lady Clementine – A Book Review

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I belong to a book club at The Canopy in The Woodlands. This beautiful facility is located at Memorial Hermann, and is devoted to the education and support of cancer survivors. I think most of us in the group have or have had breast cancer, but it doesn’t seem to matter what type of cancer. It’s just a great group of ladies who like to talk about books.

I joined to help nudge me to read more. I recently heard that the prisoners of Alcatraz read more books in one year than most people read in a lifetime. I guess they have a lot of time on their hands, but I also imagine their brains were much sharper as a result.

Anyway, this month’s book was Lady Clementine. It’s historic fiction based on the story of Winston Churchill’s wife. I wrote a review and sent it to my book club leader, because Tim and I were on vacation. Here’s what I sent her.


On our trip out of town, I read the first chapter to my husband while he drove. He liked it so much we decided to read the whole book together. It was such a captivating book, from the very beginning. Unlike many books, it didn’t take several chapters to get into it. We sat by lakes in Colorado and Utah, under the mountains, by a gorge, in lovely cafés, and everywhere in between. Every chance we got we pulled out the book and read a chapter or two aloud to each other. 

We both enjoyed engaging with the stories from Winston and Clemmie’s life together. Their “Meet-Cute” was especially fun and intriguing. From that first moment we wondered which parts of the book were true and which parts were fiction. Either way, it seems the author captured their personalities and spirits rather astutely, from the other accounts we have read or movies we have seen of the Churchills. They seemed to be made for each other, in their pursuit of the greater good, and Winston’s political career.

It was fun reading it together as he knows a lot about history and we could bounce ideas off each other. Also, when we forgot who someone was (as there were a lot of names to remember), we could ask. Sometimes we had to go back and look. He laughed with me, shared his disappointment as well as upset when bad things happened, and we both enjoyed seeing the more complex yet intimate relational side of the Churchills. Watching her matriculate his change of political views, when they aligned and misaligned, was interesting as well. I thought the whole Terrence episode was interesting. We differed on what we thought would happen. An emotional affair can be just as devastating as a sexual one, so it seems this took some time for her to work through as well. In the end, she stayed true to her Pug (loved their pet names).

I didn’t know about all the motherly concerns Clementine had for her children, or the problems they had with their grown children, or that they had lost a child at such a young age. It helped me to witness her humanity. I could sort of relate to Clementine, as I pursued my degree and career while raising my children. It was always a mind battle between taking care of the kids and doing what I wanted/needed to do to better myself (so that I could help others). I related to her sense of urgency in fulfilling a bigger purpose in life. I could also relate to her feelings of inadequacy as a mother, especially now that our kids are grown and I look back on our child-rearing days.  

I doubt there is a mother out there who doesn’t look back and think of ways she could have (should have?) done things differently. None of us are perfect, but perhaps some of us really did put priorities in other places. I could not relate to her leaving her kids for months at a time, however. I can’t imagine what that must have been like. I had a hard enough time dropping them off at day care each day! I also could not relate to losing a child. That tragedy would be hard to overcome.

Her strength as a woman, wife of a very strong political figure, and basic human aspirations made for a great story. Watching how they handled not one, but two, wars was fascinating. I did a little weary of the technical side of the war(s), but it was interesting to read all the different aspects of the war that I was not previously aware of. We learned more about the British view of the war, as well as their view of the American side. I would read other books by this author, and in fact just read a Quora post about Hedy Lamarr, and it intrigued me to consider reading more about her.

I asked my husband what he thought of the book, especially since it had a strong female protagonist. He enjoyed the book. Tim truly appreciates it when a woman is revered, and is given the ability to show her true self. I agreed with him on that.

Oh, and how I wish I knew how to pronounce Clem-en-TEEN earlier in the book. 🙄🙄
We give it an 8.5 rating. 

Here’s the group’s review.

Eleven of us gathered yesterday, June 14th to discuss Lady ClemenTEEN by Marie Benedict.  It was an interesting read because some of us had immense respect for her and her accomplishments and some of us had zero respect for her especially as a mother.  It was heroic how “Pug and Cat” lead the British people during such dire times during WW2.  We all agreed that without their courage and patriotism the Brits probably would have lost the war.  We discussed how both of them had such terrible mothers and how that reflected their lives and marriage.  We rated the book 7.3.


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All the Light We Cannot See – Book Review

I started this book about a month before my book club meeting, picked it up, put it down, then got into it about two weeks later. Once I got into it, I had a hard time putting it back down. I finished it at midnight the night before the meeting.

I’ve discovered some things about me and my style of reading. This is just a start. I’m sure I’ll learn a lot more as I continue to read more novels and fewer academic books.

First of all, I love historic fiction. I don’t know that I ever knew that for a fact, but I love reading all the human interest stories surrounded by true historic events. Second, it takes me a while to get into a book. Call it procrastination, or feeling tired, or dread, I don’t know. But, if it’s a good book, I do get into it and then I have a hard time letting it go until I finish. I do enjoy true stories, so perhaps the truth of the history is what draws me in.


This month’s book was All the Light We Cannot See, by Anthony Doerr. He won a Pulitzer Prize (2015 Fiction Prize) the year after it was published. I was curious to find out why, and I was not disappointed.

Sitting on the back patio,
enjoying my book (and the baby birds that just left the nest).

I tried to explain the plot to Tim, but this book is so full of intricate details, defining it is a massive challenge. What can I say? Read it!

Basically it’s a story of a boy and a girl who experience the atrocities of war, and the intersection of their stories. The book tells us about a blind Marie-Laure’s experience from the French side, as well as Werner’s front line witness on the German side. Werner was a child prodigy, fixing broken radios from a young age, then he is called to enter the war with others who would share in participating as students and military personnel in Heitler’s Reich. Marie-Laure learned to make use of her other senses at a young age, opening puzzle boxes within minutes, smelling her way around town, and recalling her steps by counting drains. Their family members are also followed, and the chapters rotate between various people and locations. This kept me on my toes.

There is much history told within the pages of this book. I feel like I understand more about the war, the important role played by the radio and trigonometry (math comes in handy in real life at times), German’s propaganda, the attack on Paris, the sad demise of the city of Saint-Malo, and how war impacts everyone to some degree or another (to name a few). I felt attached to the blind girl with freckles, whose father created small replicas of her town so she could find her way around when she ventured outdoors. I loved reading some French phrases, and actually understanding them!

The father’s puzzle boxes reminded me of the puzzle box my mother brought home to me from Guatemala, when I was a little girl. She was there on an extended mission trip after a major earthquake shook their world. I meant to take it to the meeting to show my fellow book clubbers, but I forgot to pick it up as I was walking out the door. Perhaps I can create a video to show you what it looks like, as well as the treasures found inside. It’s an antique now!

I liked the relatively short chapters, which helped the pages flip a bit faster. It’s quite a story. I enjoyed seeing the resilience and perseverance of those who experienced trauma and war crimes. The storyteller drew me in with his beautifully written phrases, exquisite attention to detail, and storyline. As I carried the book with me to doctor’s appointments and other errands, I heard more than once, “That’s a great book!”

I rated it a 9.0, with one point deducted primarily due to the ending. Club members also rated it strong, with some ratings increasing from 8.0 to 9.0 after our discussion.


Spoiler Alert! Skip this paragraph if you plan to read the book. I was a bit disappointed by the ending. I was hoping for a Hallmark ending, and that didn’t happen. A few people’s ending were left unclear, as the characters in the book were unable to find family members and friends. Werner and Marie-Laure do meet, and he saves her life more than once, but they only meet in person for less than a day. He seems to have fallen in love with her before they met, but when they leave the country in separate ways, he becomes ill and wanders into a mine field. I was really hoping they could stay together until the end of the book. It’s fiction after all. Why didn’t the author end it that way? I guess war is like that. Not a lot of happy endings.


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The Boys in the Boat – Book Review

I’ve managed to make it to all four book club meetings this year, and I’ve read all four of the books. That’s more than I’ve read in a while, so I’m pretty proud of myself. Each month someone different picks a book, so we never know for sure what we are going to read. This month’s book was The Boys in the Boat, by Daniel James Brown. It’s a true story about the boys who rowed in the 1936 Berlin Olympics–and won. It’s a long story, demonstrating all the obstacles they had to overcome to get there.

The main character (Joe) was interviewed by the author, along with Joe’s daughter, as he was nearing the end of his life. Apparently she kept many newspaper clippings and had journaled their story in detail, so this helped the cause. Much research had to have gone into this book in addition to her contribution. Historic events in Berlin under Hitler’s dictatorship showed a side of propaganda I found very interesting, as it was woven into the context of the story in a way I have not heard before. And the competition between the east and west was also new to me. Very intriguing how the underdogs were treated.

It was a good read. I learned more about rowing than I ever thought I would! I’m not sure I could do it! The torture these boys endured would probably not be permitted in schools today (e.g. rowing every day in the snow and bitter cold). The book was a bit technical for my liking, with a few too many rowing races described in infinite detail. I admittedly skimmed a few parts to get to the end where they competed in the Olympics. It took a while to get there. I do think it’s amazing that this true story, a fabulous part of history, is in print. It needed to be told.

Carol’s summary of our discussion was again spot-on.

"Nine of us gathered this afternoon to discuss The Boys in the Boat by Daniel James Brown.  We marveled at how these Washington poor young men overcame all the obstacles thrown at them and how they kept rising up and beating the odds.  The Depression; the weather; the practices and still went to a job and had to do homework; the east coast having all the money/prestige; having to come up with $5,000 to go to the 1936 Olympics; the lane that they got at the Olympics; Don Hume deathly sick at the Olympics.  You could go on and on.  We all hated Thula, Joe’s stepmother,  and how she could abandon Joe at 10 years old and how Joe’s father let it happen was so pathetic.  Several of us got sick of the description of the art of rowing over and over.  It was too repetitive.  We thought the propaganda town of Berlin during the Olympics fascinating that they really pulled it off.  We all loved the ending and finding out what each one became and the families getting together each year.  We were sad of course that they all are gone.  We were all thankful for this true story being written. We rated the book 8.5."

There are a lot of memories about Joe’s family and growing up. I probably enjoyed reading these sections the most. Watching the family dynamics was intriguing as a family therapist. But it was hard to absorb as well. His family was a challenge, and I can’t imagine anyone who would abandon their son the way they did. His step-mother was stereotypical, and could have come straight from a classic Disney movie. Having said that, overcoming this challenge is just one of the many things that made him into the great man he became.

I pondered whether our current society is too easy on people. It seems our younger generation has become soft, and tends to give up more readily. I’m not saying we should permit bullying, but I wonder if the bullies in one’s life could actually help bolster an individual if we get the right perspective about it.

Perhaps we all need a few more obstacles to strengthen our internal muscles. We can moan and groan and complain, or we can choose to welcome the obstacles in our lives. Rather than focusing on how someone else can change, think about how their interaction with you can change you. These challenges may be the very thing we need to become the next (better) version of ourselves.


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The Scent Keeper – Book Review

Our book for the month of March was The Scent Keeper, by Erica Bauermeister. This is an intriguing novel and a New York Times Bestseller. Once I got into it, I had a hard time putting it down. I may read it again. It’s an easy read, and the story was captivating. There is a bit of mystery, sadness, love, laughter, and of course family. Hmmm, I may have just described the majority of popular novels out there. 😂😂 🤩🤩

This book is unique in that it is based on the concept of capturing smells in a bottle, the same way we capture moments on a photograph. If you wanted to remember a particular moment in time, from a scent perspective, you could open the bottle and it would transport you back to that time. Not literally, but emotionally and in a very clear memory. The main character, a teenager by now, was raised on an island with only her father to keep her company. It reminded me of the movie “Nim’s Island,” except Emmeline had no contact with the outside world as Nim enjoyed in the movie. She questioned her father’s constant dedication to the scent bottles, and as her eyes were opened to some things on the island, this is when her life really changed.

Aside, it’s interesting how a riff with one’s parent can change an entire destiny. I’ve seen it so many times as children become teenagers and then suddenly turn into young adults. Young adults need to grow up and become independent. Oh how I wish we could keep them small! And oh how I wish I could spend one more day with each of my parents.

I went to my book club, and we left immediately after that for our trip to Kentucky. My dad passed away this week, so it is a quick trip. I’ll write about that later. After that we are heading to Florida for one of Tim’s work gigs.

I’ll keep this review a bit shorter due to traveling. After the meeting Carol sent out her summary of our discussion. As usual, she captured the heart of the conversation. I especially enjoyed the question, “what is the smell of childhood for you?” Maybe you’d like to consider that question as well. Is there a particular scent that takes you back to a certain moment in time? Smell is such a strong sense, and we often overlook its power. Anyway, here is our leader’s summary. I should forewarn you that our summaries may spoil the ending for you.

Nine of us gathered this afternoon to discuss The Scent Keeper by Erica Bauermeister.  We started off the discussion with the question of what is smell of childhood for you…….  The answers were the Library, Root Beer, Railroad engine, Seaspray, a picnic in an apple orchard, fresh cut grass and the earth, the outdoors and a basement, Pine Sol, Mom’s biscuits and pineapple upside down cake, white shoulders perfume, Prell shampoo to name a few.  The majority of us thought it was an easy read and well written.  Most of us had no idea of how smell is used in marketing and the different layers to entice buyers.  We thought the topic of the book intriguing and interesting.  We talked about Emmeline/Violet and her isolation on the island with her father, the second part being on the cove and then the city with her Mother.  Lisa pointed out that the author named a lot of the characters based on what happens to them.  Fisher for instance because he doesn’t fish with his abusive Father  and Emmeline’s Father calling her Little Lark, which she does fly away.  Several of us thought the ending was confusing and many of us read the ending a couple of times. Twelve of us rated the book and gave it a 7.5 rating.  Sending condolences to Cindy who lost her Father and driving to his service in Kentucky.  Safe Travels to you!!!!

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Redeeming Love – Book Review

I had a hard time writing this book review. For starters, I recommended this book to my book club, and it was a flop. Or was it?

I saw the movie a while ago and remembered hearing from some friends that the book was very good. Even better than the movie. I had in the back of my mind to read it one day. But I never actually did.

On the day of my chemo I went to give blood. Somehow, my phlebotomist and I got onto the subject of books. (I think I had Lessons in Chemistry with me at the time.) She told me her all-time favorite book, which she picks up and re-reads every year, is Redeeming Love, by Francine Rivers. Hmm. That’s interesting. She is a believer, and the story resonates with her.

While I was getting chemo, our book club leader reached out to me and said the lady who was meant to pick our February book wasn’t able to be there. Could I choose one? This book seemed to be in the forefront of my mind for a reason. It’s about love, and February is the month of love, so why not. I asked if it was okay to choose a Christian book; she said no problem! I offered this best seller as a recommendation.

I enjoyed the book. It is a very sad story about a woman forced into the sex industry from the time she was a child. It may seem like fiction, but I was thinking about all the real-life scenarios where this is happening today. It’s easy to just “forget about it,” and move on with our lives. Yet, many women deal with this on a day to day basis.

Along comes Mr. Hosea, who loves her from the moment he sets eyes on her (he doesn’t know Angel is a prostitute). He hears God speaking to him, telling him this is the woman for him. The story progresses from there as his unconditional love drives him to pursue a relationship with her. A godly relationship. His love eventually redeems her from the repugnant life she was living, but not without its many hardships along the way.

One other group member and I rated this book a 9. (She is also a believer, and has worked with teens who were sex trafficked.) The other group members were not as impressed, rating it as low as 4 or 5. I think one member even rated it a 2. Some thought the characters could have been developed more fully. (I agreed. This is why I rated it a 9, but I didn’t think that should knock off 6 or 8 points. ) It seems the connection to the Bible, Scriptural references, and the concept of hearing from God and loving someone in spite of their spiritual ugliness were a bit too much for some of the group members to swallow.

At the end of each meeting, our group leader summarizes our conversation and sends it to us in an email. I thought she captured the discussion well. Here is her summary.

“Ten of us gathered on this wet afternoon to discuss Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers.  This book brought a lot of discussion and topics especially sex trafficking.  We all felt bad reading this book and also thought there wasn’t a lot of character development.  For those of us who did not know the biblical story of Hosea, a prophet, who marries Gomer who is a prostitute, would have been beneficial to understand the book.  Sarah/Angel who is Gomer, we all felt opened our eyes to the never ending cycle of prostitution and how she used it like money and the only thing she knew how to do.  Some of us shared personal stories of working in the sex trafficking arena and how hard they become and how hard it is to break the cycle which is so heartbreaking.  We were frustrated with the story at the end and felt it was wrapped up very quickly after all the angst.  For those of you who would like to watch the movie, it is on Prime Video.  Here is the Roger Ebert summary and review: https://www.rogerebert.com/reviews/redeeming-love-movie-review-2022
We rated the book a 5.05.”

~ Our Group Leader

I came away from the meeting feeling a little defeated, to be honest, since I was the one who recommended the book. I was glad to read a book that didn’t drop “F” bombs, as well as one that told a story of restoration. I naïvely thought other people would like it too, and I thought they would value a greater understanding of sex traffic victims. The books we read before this one ended abruptly, and had a few literary flaws, but the group didn’t drop down their rating as much as they did on this one. That was a surprise to me. There must have been other reasons. Perhaps their distaste was primarily due to the Christian emphasis.

I’m a little skittish about recommending another book. 😳

The link to Roger Ebert’s summary (above) of the movie was beneficial. It is a good review, and it did help me understand why the others in my book club may have rated the book so low. I understood when he said the author may have been “preaching to the choir.” Our group identified their lack of understanding of the story of Hosea and Gomer (I explained it to them). The book definitely resonated more with those of us who have a Christian background. Background definitely impacts how one may view a story. I think Francine Rivers missed the boat here. She could have had a greater impact if she had reached out to a broader audience, explaining in a prologue the story of Hosea and Gomer for those who are unfamiliar with it.

I admit there were a few points that had me confused. The author switches the names of characters throughout the book (gives them multiple names) and this could have been more clearly written. There was one character I thought could have been developed a bit further. However, as I was reading the book I was more focused on the story of redeeming love for someone who leaves, leaves again, and continues to leave the arms of Christ. Just when you think Angel is staying, she leaves again. She goes back to her prior lifestyle. She doesn’t know anything else.

This impacted me as I thought about sex traffic victims. How hard it must be to leave the only lifestyle you have learned. The only thing that earns you a living. The only thing you know how to do. The only thing that brings you “love,” albeit a twisted and ungodly form of love. Building trust would be so difficult after that; believing that someone can love you unconditionally would take a great deal of time and effort. How many men would be as patient and generous as Hosea?

Yet Hosea keeps on loving her, the same way Jesus does with us. Jesus loves us no matter what. Unconditionally! Every time we turn our back on Him, He is there watching for us to return. He wants us to. He desires a relationship with us. And He patiently waits for us to do so. He never gives up on us. And when we finally do come back, He doesn’t chastise us or make us feel bad. He wraps His loving arms around us and says, “Welcome Home.”

But, I may be preaching to the choir.


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The Rose Code – Book Review

I joined a book club.

It’s sponsored by the Canopy, a cancer survivorship center at Memorial Hermann in The Woodlands. You don’t have to be a patient there, just a cancer survivor or friend of a survivor. They have a LOT of activities, from cooking classes to Spanish classes, to Yoga. I could make a full time job of attending everything they offer.

I joined the book club because I set a goal to read more books, and this can help hold me accountable. I also wanted to connect with other survivors, some of whom I already know, and some new ladies as well. We meet monthly, and rotate who picks the book. I’ve only been able to attend two meetings so far, because of our travel schedule. I am hoping to get to more meetings this year.

The first time I attended was in November, and we read Lessons in Chemistry, by Bonnie Garmus. I didn’t write a review on that one, but it was a very good book, currently being made into a drama television series on Apple TV. My main critiques for that book were the slower beginning, and the ending seemed to tie everything up a little too quickly. But it did have an interesting premise, and I loved the name she chose for her very smart dog. “Six-thirty”, because he followed her home and she looked at the time on her watch when she decided to keep him. Clever writing.

Our book for January was The Rose Code, by Kate Quinn. A very long novel, at over 600 pages, I was unable to finish before our meeting. (We were out of town during most of December, and then arrived on Friday before our Wednesday meeting.) I got about half-way through and vowed to finish before starting the book for February. The further I got into the book, the harder it was to put it down. I had rated it 8.5 at the meeting, but after finishing it and attending the meeting, I give it a 9.

The Rose Code is based on Bletchley Park in the UK, where codebreakers worked during the second world war. Men went off to war to fight, and since women were not permitted to fight, they often worked behind the scenes. Codebreaking was one of those jobs. It is said that this work shortened the war by at least two years.

Three heroines are the primary codebreakers followed throughout the book. They are three very different women, who come together in an unusual and unique way, sharing a common purpose. It reminds me that friends will often come from the most unlikely places, and friends may enter our picture for a specific purpose and season in life.

Maybe you’ve seen the movie The Imitation Game, with Benjamin Cumberbatch. This book refers to his character, who was a real person, in addition to some other real people like Prince Philip and Princess Elizabeth. The book kept going back and forth between the week before their royal wedding, and the days of breaking code, which helped to explain some of the “current” events.

I won’t give it away, but I will say I enjoyed reading it. I liked the references to historical facts, codes, and processes that helped with the war efforts. I also enjoyed reading the author’s notes, as she describes in detail which characters are based on real people and how she came up with the idea for the plot twist. She did her research! Now I want to visit Bletchley Park, which was restored and turned into a museum by Kate Middleton (her grandmother worked there). Fascinating history, and great book to honor the codebreakers.

February’s book…Redeeming Love, by Francine Rivers. Appropriate for the month of love, don’t you think?


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