Handfeeding Birds at Kensington Metropark: Cindy’s Solo Bird Nerd Adventure!

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Ready for a little feathered magic? đŸŠ I’ve been looking forward to staying in the Detroit area since the beginning of this trip, mostly because I follow a photographer who shares videos on Facebook of her “hand of snacks,” feeding the local birds in all seasons of the year. Her bird photography is worthy of accolades. I wish I had half her talent. She shared the name of the park where her skills find these incredible experiences, and I took note. The birds are used to people because they have been handfed for years. I did my research, scheduled a day when we would be close enough to the park, kissed my husband good-bye while he was setting up a Zoom call, and took off, my backpack loaded with a five-pound bag of birdseed (the smallest bag I could find). 

It was easy to find the Kensington Metropark Visitor’s Entrance where I paid my $10.00 one-day fee, but one never fully appreciates how big a park is until you get lost inside. We have experienced the enormity of National Parks, which of course are expected, but this park was much larger than I imagined. That park makes a city park look like a thimble in a bathtub! There are three separate entrances, miles of nature trails for hiking and biking, fishing docks and boat access on Kent Lake, two separate parks with swimming beaches, a regulation golf course (which Tim now wishes he would have played), primitive camping, winter and summer sports, and so much more. 

It was a bit of a challenge following the map to the Wildwing Trail, but I took the long way around to get a better “feel” for the park. Once I got close, I still had some difficulty finding where the trail actually starts. Of course, that could be my old chemo brain lol, but I ran into at least one couple and another individual who didn’t seem to know where they were. So, maybe it’s not just me.  

Pro tip: If you want to unlock the magic of the Wildwing Trail, head to the parking lot near the Nature Center and caper down the stairs like you’re on Mission Impossible to BirdyLand. At the bottom, scan for the trailhead straight ahead—it’s your portal! That’s the easiest way to find it (I hiked the reverse direction). My Australian GPS chortled as he sent me bumping down a dirt road behind the Nature Center. After that mini-adventure, I finally cracked the code and found the actual parking lot. Trust me. Take the easy way in and skip the detour—unless you’re looking for bonus chipmunk sightings! 

The name of the Wildwing Trail suits it. There are a ton of birds and a wide variety of species. I prayed they would find me and find me they did! Prayers answered—thank you Lord. My first encounter was with a pair of Sandhill Cranes, approaching me in the parking lot like they knew something I didn’t. In spite of the signs warning us not to feed them, they seem to be very comfortable around people.  Little did I know the cranes were abundant here, and they always seemed to seek me out wherever I was on the trail. I have seen many of these birds in Florida, as they migrate there during the winter. But these are different.

The Metropark highlights a bird of the week, and when I looked up their page on the Sandhill Crane, here’s what they offered. â€œOften referred to by park visitors as a prehistoric bird, the Sandhill Crane is an exciting bird to spot while visiting the Metroparks. With their characteristic red marking on the crown of their head and stilt-like walking they are certainly a majestic bird to encounter. Sandhill Cranes are typically gray or slate colored with some rust colored markings on their underside. The Sandhill Cranes at Kensington Metropark have more rusty coloring than cranes found in other areas due to the high iron content in the water, when they clean their feathers the water stains the feather with a rusty hue. Their slender and sharp bill, growing longer than their head, provides good warning to keep a safe distance from them whenever you may encounter them in the park.”

Seriously, the Wildwing Trail is like the Disneyland of birds, all things red—sandhill cranes, red-winged blackbirds, cardinals, red-bellied woodpeckers—and even a few cheeky chipmunks tried to join the party. Check out this video for all the spontaneous bird landings, laughs, and a few tips for your own bird-feeding adventure. Whether you’re a bona fide bird nerd or just looking for a little joy at my expense, you’re in for a treat.

P.S. Heads up, fellow bird whisperers! While the signs may wag a finger and say “don’t feed the wildlife,” I got the inside scoop from the ranger at the nature center—there’s a right way to do it, so you’re in the clear! Just remember: sprinkle responsibly and don’t leave a birdseed buffet behind for the squirrels to throw a midnight rave.


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State Capitol 22: South Dakota

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June 23, 2025. Pierre, South Dakota.

While the city was named after a colonial Frenchman who built Fort Pierre across the Missouri River, and it is spelled the French way, the city is pronounced “PEER.” The city itself is worth a visit, as the Missouri River flows through and around the area making for some beautiful scenery. It may not have some of the amenities of a large city, but our campground was in a beautiful location and there are a lot of parks and walkways along the river (picture at the end). The population of Pierre is less than 15,000 (South Dakota only has a million people total).

We had our two oldest granddaughters with us during this visit, as we were on a summer road trip to the Badlands. The Capitol didn’t have any volunteers this week, so we did the self-guided tour. Every State Capitol we visit has some unique features worth mentioning, like the one in the caption below. No wonder some people like living here!

South Dakota has the only capitol building with a black dome. It is made with copper, which patinas over time. Unlike other locations where copper turns green, this dome turned black because the air quality is so high, e.g. no pollution! The girls got a science lesson today. đŸ€©

This is the first Capitol thus far that allowed us to stamp our own book. They tend to be pretty protective of those stamps! Yet, South Dakota had two different places where you could stamp your own. The picture on the right is in the governor’s office. The girls kept stamping the back of their guide books every chance they got.

Something special the girls spotted was the display of the first lady dresses. (And now there is a first gentleman’s tuxedo, as their current governor is a woman.) This special display is always my favorite as well. Paige liked the slim dress while Alison picked a dress that looks like a quinceañera gown. We talked about that in the truck later. She said she had not heard of this before, but since her mother is Mexican we assume she will have a quinceañera celebration when she turns 15.

Inside the rotunda Yoda (his name for grandpa đŸ€Šâ€â™€ïž) continues the tour.

Rotunda means “under the dome.” I think they were more interested in hearing their voices echo in the rotunda than listening to Yoda playing docent 😂. Sound on.
From the Rotunda floor to the top center black circle of the dome is 96 feet. It’s another 65 feet above the stained glass to the exterior ball. Not as tall as some others we’ve seen, but pretty impressive!

House and Senate. During the construction of the building in 1910, the House and Senate were each given the same amount of money with which to furnish and decorate their respective chambers. Because the Senate has fewer members, they were able to afford more lush wall treatments and furnishings, including marble wainscotting and cherry wood accents. To match wood tones between the two areas, thanks to the superior craftsmanship of the carpenters, the Senate doors are cherry on the interior and oak on the exterior.

Senate Chambers, decorate in cool green tones, scagliola columns, Vermont White Cloud marble, cherry wood, and African mahogany. After an extensive search for the original 1910 light fixtures came up empty, solid brass replicas were cast and used in restoration. Each of the chandeliers weighs 750 pounds. Also of interest, the largest painting in the building, The Louisiana Purchase, is located here. If you look closely you can see it above the President’s Chair.
Tim briefly describes the purpose of the Senate 😂. Sound on.
House of Representatives. The House Chamber is decorated in warm earth-tone colors, decorative plaster and solid oak wood accents. Chandeliers are not original or duplicates; they were removed from the original Federal Court Room in Pierre, also built in 1910, and installed in the Capitol. The House chamber is accented with decorative stenciling and backlit Victorian leaded stained-glass ceiling.
This stained glass fan is in the back of the House gallery, and can be seen from the Senate across the observation railing.

What is it with kids and stairs? They loved jumping from the second step, as we were preparing to leave the building.

Per legend, 66 blue signature stones – each representing a capitol Italian terrazzo artist – are laid in flooring. We didn’t see even one of them, or maybe we saw them but didn’t realize they were special.

Credit goes to the guide book for the wonderful information about the Capitol included in this blog.

Great day at the State Capitol of South Dakota!


We camped for two nights at the Farm Island Recreation Area. It’s so quiet and peaceful there! We had a beautiful spot on the river, with a small sandy beach the girls enjoyed as well.

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Snow! In Texas!

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We had planned to leave for Florida today. Our plans were to spend a week in Panama City Beach at St. Andrews State Park, and then travel on to Melbourne where we would stay a month at Land Yacht Harbor (an Airstream only park). But the closer today approached, the more our uncertainty as to what to do expanded.

A few events lead to our decision.

Weather. We checked the weather. Daily. Hourly. Sometimes even more often. As you are probably aware by now, the weather forecasted a major snowstorm for the entire southeast. Unless you live under a rock, you have probably read about this or seen it on the news. It’s making national and international news.

I went to FaceBook and asked, “stay and play in the snow, or leave early?” Of course, my Florida friends said, “you have to ask???” Our Airstream friends were mixed, and extremely helpful in terms of making sure our Alde heating system was working. Some of our northern friends had already come south, but at least one of my friends experienced snow in the deep south after they left clearer skies up north.

Houston doesn’t get snow. In fact, KHOU-11 (our Houston news) said in a recent blog post, “Snow is so rare in Houston that we cannot even discuss the top ten recorded snowfall events in Houston’s history, because only eight of them exist.” Well, now there will be nine.

The NPR is talking about it. Winter storm “Enzo” is wreaking havoc all along the I-10 Corridor. Pictures and videos are flooding the internet of Beaumont, downtown New Orleans, Galveston Beach, and the panhandle of Florida. It’s a HUGE blizzard of “epic proportions.” (Now I sound like a weatherman.) I even saw a video of a cowboy in Texas riding his horse through the snow, pulling someone on a makeshift sled behind him. Classic.


Medical concerns. In the meantime, Tim received some disturbing news from his dermatologist. He has a few skin concerns, and the medicine would come in the mail for some of them. More importantly, he needs to schedule surgery on a spot very close to his eye (right on the corner by his nose). She’s about 95-99% certain it is basal cell carcinoma. He is waiting for the MOHS center to call back with an appointment, and whether we can afford the cost.

Work concerns. In addition to his regular work obligations, Tim is now scheduled for a presentation trip to Minnesota the first week of February (2-4). It’s easier to fly out of Houston than all the places we had planned to visit in Florida.

I also have some work to catch up on. I’m still supervising some LMFT Associates in Texas, and I need to complete some CEUs for my AAMFT supervisory status as well as licensure. I can do this better with the solid internet we have here as well.

Sometimes, it’s less hassle to go with what you know.

All that being said, we decided to “hunker down” and stay where we are. We were able to cancel our reservation at the State Park for a small fee, and delay our reservation at Land Yacht Harbor by a week (no fee). Both of these were paid in full, and LYH has no refunds, so we were glad to make these changes. We did try to reschedule St. Andrews, but it’s really hard to get in Florida State Parks this time of year. There are only one or two days available here and there (across the state).

We did end up getting between an inch or two of snow. The pictures are pretty. It stuck to the ground, but not the concrete. I was hoping for a total blanket. You know the kind that turns the trees to a solid white? The kind you see in all the other pictures from up north? However, this was pretty exceptional for our neck of the woods.

When stuck inside, it’s a good time to bake bread. There’s a little heat coming up from behind the sink, so my einkorn starter rose really well.

If you look closely, you can see the icicles hanging from the front of our Classy Girls, looking like fangs. She kept us nice and toasty warm inside! It warmed up to the 40s later in the day and most of the snow melted.

As it turned out, Panama City Beach Florida ended up getting more snow than we got in Willis Texas. Go figure! Looks like we made a good decision.


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